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The Importance of Nurturing Your Friendships-5 Tips


The Importance of Nurturing Friendships

What would we do without friendships!  I just love this photo of my daughter and her friends taken on their senior spring break trip.(*Used with permission from the girls and the Mom that took the photo.) We took a Mother/Daughter trip and it was so much fun for all of us!

These girls have grown up together and have been friends since grade school.  One unique thing about their friendship is that in high school they all had separate interests/activities and sub-groups of friends as a result, but they always found their way back to each other.  They always made time to get together for sleepovers, birthday parties and to just hang out. After high school this continued as they all went to different colleges, but still make a point to get together on school breaks.

No matter where life takes them, they know they will always have this group of friends to fall back on through all the ups and downs of life. What a blessing friends are!

I too have been blessed with so many special friends in my life who I have managed to keep in touch with. From childhood to college and then as an adult through work, church, military wives groups, mom groups, neighbors, school moms I have made some amazing friends.  I have managed to keep in touch with many of these ladies. Technology has made it much easier with those who live far away.

Friends Are There For You In Good Times and Bad

This past year has been a challenging one for me with my Mom having some serious health issues, the Mister traveling extensively and sending my oldest going off to college.  My girlfriends have been there for me to lift me up on days when I just didn’t think I could do “life”.

I distinctly remember the evening before my Mom’s surgery this spring. Feeling so anxiety ridden and panicked about her surgery the next day, I felt consumed with worry.  I texted two of my friends who immediately responded and surrounded me with comforting prayers, scripture and affirmations.  Peace and calmness washed over me.  They even distracted me with silly emojis and I found myself laughing despite my sadness and worry.  During this hard time, friends and family supported us through phone calls, texts and helping with my youngest.

I have other friends who live long distances away, but when we do manage to get together, it is like we’ve never missed a beat.  We just pick up the conversation and run with it!  Then, there are childhood friends who are so very special.  Those friends know me in a way that no one else ever will.  They were there from the beginning!

I have a few  group texts going with some friends and family and is an awesome way to keep in touch with each other.  Sometimes, life feels so crazy busy that it is hard to take the time to regularly get together or chat with friends.  I’m not perfect at seeing everyone as often as I should but I refuse to give up trying.  I always feel refreshed and happier after meeting a friend for lunch or tea.  As I get older, I realize how important it is to maintain these relationships.  Here are a few tips that have worked for me to keep in touch with friends.

5 Tips For Nurturing Your Friendships

1.Keep it simple! Don’t get me wrong, I would love a whole girl’s weekend away, but if you can’t fit something like that into your life, it’s okay. Just going out for a simple coffee or cup of tea can help you stay connected.

2. For long distance friends, make a FaceTime or Skype date.  Grab your coffee or tea and find a location where you can talk uninterrupted. lock yourself in the bathroom if you need to! This is a great way to stay connected. It is such a joy to talk with my girlfriend in Texas this way and seeing her face is so much nicer and more personal than text or e-mail.

3. Start a group chat or text and keep it going! Check in with each other, encourage each other. Send funny memes or uplifting scripture verses.

4. Make the commitment to put a date on the calendar.  Try to stick to it, but don’t stress out if you have to re-schedule.  Just keep trying, it will eventually work and you will be so glad  you made the effort!

5. Try something new together such as a cooking, painting or crafting class. Spending time with friends doing something fun will nurture your soul!

I hope you found some inspiration to pick up the phone or text a friend and make the time to get together! I promise that you will not regret the time spent nurturing your friendships!



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